Sermon Notes June 21, 2026

“Our Dad Shaped Hole” 

The Role of the Father 

  1. We need to make it crystal clear to men: _____________        is the ultimate reward. It far outweighs money or success. 

Psalm 10:14, 17-18, ”But You, God, see the trouble of the afflicted; You consider their grief and take it in hand.
The victims commit themselves to You; You are the helper of the fatherless… 17 You, Lord, hear the desire of the afflicted; You encourage them, and You listen to their cry,18 defending the fatherless and the oppressed, so that mere earthly mortals  will never again strike terror.” 

Psalm 68:5, “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.” 

  1. Being a father is not just about provision or protection. It’s about _____________. intimacy, love or ___________. 
  2. In other words “father figures” are meant to be fathers who ______________, who factor in and who play a role. 
  3. Until a man knows he’s a man, he will forever be trying _______________ he is one, and often in destructive ways. 

1 Thessalonians 2:11-12, For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children,12 encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into His kingdom and glory.” 

  1. “Fathers are the ones who tell their little girls that they are ______________________________________.”